Monday, February 1, 2010

How To Get Over Being Rejected



This is a petite guide to getting over rejection (or a bad breakup).


So you were rejected by a someone that you really liked. So what! There are plenty of other fish in the sea, trust me. And just because your perfect image of your person is now ruined by the words, "I'm not interested." doesn't mean you will never fall for someone ever again. In fact you just learned something about yourself!


You suck at reading signals. In fact, you now know exactly when a guy is just being friendly (well, in my case).


Basically, if a guy is into you, he's going to tell you. If he's not, then he won't. Simply as that. Because, guys are really simple creatures. Wwe need to stop reading so much into their actions and everything they say. No more obsessing!!


Step 1:


Mope all you want. Cry, scream, and bitch all day long. Write an angry letter and burn it. Eat animal crackers and ice cream. But only for 2 days. That's all you get. Then you have to move on. Remember he's not a huge part of your life anymore.


Step 2:


Find anything that reminds you of him and toss it. That includes things he's given you, things you've bought because of him, and things he's touched, that you've kept.(If you a creeper like that).


Step 3:


Work on yourself. Do something physical to give yourself endorphins. Get a new haircut or color. Change your makeup to something more sexy. Pick up a new hobby. Go to the spa. Get your car washed. Spend an afternoon or weekend dedicated to the new you.


Step 4:


Write in your journal about how you feel about everything. Now write in it every night. If you don't have a journal, buy one. A really nice one, so you'll feel inspired to actually write in it. Be totally honest with yourself. No one's reading it, except for you.


Step 5:


Go out with your friends. Maybe you'll meet someone, maybe you won't. Just being open to new people and experiences will give you a more positive outlook. Just enjoy yourself.


I hope I've helped you in your really shitty time. Remember you are a strong, sexy and empowered woman. Let them hear you roar!!

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